If there’s one thing we know, it’s that your roommates can make or break your college living experience. Asking in-depth questions can unveil layers of your roommate’s personality and help establish a bond that lasts throughout your college years. And we at Find My Place have the best comprehensive list of questions that go beyond the average “what’s your major?” questions, all collected from college students. Here’s what many said they wished they had asked within the first two weeks of moving into their apartments or dorms. And we want to share them with you!
If you’re reading this article, you might be searching for a way to ask more uncomfortable questions. Questions like, “what’s your favorite candy?” can make understanding your roommate’s personality, habits, social life, and living expectations impossible to know. Our goal is not only to help you ask the right questions but also to get to the “best friends forever” part of your relationship with your roommates.
So here they are:
From how to decorate your Dojo-Mojo-Casa-House to which groceries you would be willing to share, this section is focused on personal preferences. Some of the biggest conflicts within an apartment are about room temperature, decorations, and sharing food. Make sure to get to know your roommate with questions like these:
Knowing what kind of habits to expect is incredibly important, especially if you’re sharing a room with someone. What if they’re 2 am partiers or an early-morning gym bro? Their habits can impact you directly, take it from us as experts on roommate disaster stories (Read more about it!). Here are questions especially crafted to understand their habits:
Some come to college looking for a new friend group, some come to expand their friend group, and others want to do lots of fun things with friends they already know. It’s hard to tell what your roommates might be interested in during the first few weeks of school. The questions below are constructive ways to be courteous when it comes to having friends over.
Now we’re down to the nitty-gritty. The Big Slam! These questions are designed to facilitate helpful conversations for roommates. Sharing a small apartment can be tough, especially if you and your roommate(s) don’t see eye-to-eye. By asking the following questions, you can find insight into their habits, social life, preferences, and communication skills.
The key to a successful and harmonious college living experience lies in the art of asking the right questions. Your roommates play a crucial role in shaping your time at college, and delving into in-depth inquiries beyond the typical small talk can reveal essential layers of their personalities. Our carefully curated list of questions spans personal preferences, habits, social dynamics, and shared spaces, aiming to equip you with the tools to establish strong connections with your roommates. Whether you’re navigating decorating styles or navigating potential conflicts, the insights gained from these questions can pave the way for a “best friends forever” relationship throughout your college years. At Find My Place, we believe that understanding your roommates on a deeper level from the start is the key to creating a living space where everyone feels comfortable, respected, and valued. So, go ahead, ask those questions, and embark on a college journey enriched by meaningful connections with your roommates.
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